What rules do you have? Do your rules include body safety rules
Keeping our kids safe means rules include body safety. What can be touched, what can’t. What can be seen, what can’t. These rules should be part of daily conversation — in the bath, playing tackle, playing dress up. Simple reminders like, “Remember your body safety rules, it is not okay for you to touch any one’s underwear or for anyone to touch yours.
” Something like that. A child can’t be expected to remember a rule if it’s only repeated occasionally.
Predators like to find kids who will keep secrets. For gifts, you can say “surprise.”
No gifts without asking mom or dad
. A boy in my daughter’s kindergarten class gave candy to my daughter and her friend. My daughter didn’t recognize the candy and luckily, didn’t eat it. But, it creeped me out. Was it really candy? It could be dangerous. I had visions of the school yard drug dealer “giving candy” to my daughter. Thus, the rule – no gifts without asking.
No opening the door. Ever.
others’ private parts, no one touches yours except the doctor and if mommy and daddy need to help with the potty.
No showing underwear.
Parents, no forced hugging
. (or kissing.) It sends the wrong message. Kids need to be able to say a polite “no” and have control over their body and personal space. You are in charge of your own body.
What are your safety rules?
I recommend all kids watch (more than once) . . .
by John Walsh and Julie Clark
*My kids love the Safe Side Super Chick in this DVD!
Now, take a deep breath. It will be okay. It’s scary to talk about this but too important to ignore. Now, give your kiddos lots of hugs.
Please post comments if you have any more suggestions and recommendations! We all want to know.
A bit more about this blog…
If you’re a teacher, parent, librarian, or grandparent, my blog, Imagination Soup
, is the perfect resource for you to find good children’s books.
You’ll find Children’s Books by Age
starting with board books for babies 0 and 1 year olds.
One of the most popular book lists is Kindergarten Reading
. This is a time when kids need good books and lots of practice.
Once you move beyond early readers, you might be looking for chapter books for first graders
aka. 1st Grade Books
At around age 7
, kids are ready for 2nd Grade Books
or Second Grade Books
The next level up is Third Grade Reading Chapter Books
for 3rd Graders. 3rd grade reading books
are generally for ages 8 and 9.
Ages 9 and 10 are in 4th Grade
so if you need 4th Grade Reading ideas
, you’ll want those book recommendations.
Find the Best Books for 5th Graders
in my Fifth Grade Books
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are for age 10
Age 11 and 12 is usually 6th grade
. On this list, you’ll find 6th Grade Reading
recommendations that they’ll love.
7th grade books
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When kids turn 13, they’re in 8th grade
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Toys & Gifts for 3 Year Olds
Toys & Gifts for 4 Year Old Girls
Toys & Gifts for 4 Year Old Boys
Toys & Gifts for 5 Year Old Girls
Toys & Gifts for 5 Year Old Boys
Toys & Gifts for 6 Year Old Girls
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Toys & Gifts for 7 Year Old Girls
Toys & Gifts for 7 Year Old Boys
Toys & Gifts for 8 Year Old Girls
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Toys & Gifts for 12 Year Old Girls
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Toys & Gifts for 13 Year Old Girls
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