It’s hard to find picture books and workbooks for kids about death; for kids who have lost a parent, grandparent, pet, or dealing with deployment.
My husband’s best friend died of brain cancer four years ago, leaving a two-year old and a pregnant wife. I wanted to give their daughter books. I searched bookstores and found lots of books for losing a pet, and a few for losing a grandparent, but hardly any on losing a parent.
Times have changed. Now there are more available books and excellent workbooks for kids who have lost a parent; kids who are dealing with grief and hard-to-answer questions.
Children’s Books about Death
Rainbow Reach Workbooks on Loss & Grief
The best books for children about death and dealing with loss of many different kinds (deployment, loss of a pet, or loss of a loved one) is the Rainbow Reach Workbook Series by Certified Grief Recovery Specialist Susan Weaver. (Who happens to be one of the kindest people I know!)
I’m so impressed with the quality of the Rainbow Reach workbooks. If you experience a loss or a death or know someone who is, keep these books in mind.
Why I recommend Rainbow Reach books:
– perfect amount of writing = not too much with a big, readable font size
– very interactive! Each page is for the child to use: draw, write, color, & paste in something.
– black and white line drawings encourage coloring
– activities that help children process feelings, memories, and questions
– facilitates children creating remembrance rituals, something important in the grieving process
– see an example here: download sample pages
The 4 Books:
Love & Memories: Activities for Kids Who Have Lost a Loved One (like a parent or relative)
sample pages here
Heroes! Activities for Kids: Dealing with Deployment (a much needed book with many families coping with this!)
sample pages here
Worry Busters! Activities for Kids Who Worry Too Much (wow, very helpful)
sample pages here
Rainbow Roar Blog = Kids Own Words
Susan is about to publish the Rainbow Roar blog, a community blog for children ages 4 – 14 for them to: share feelings and thoughts, find community, begin a grief journey, find helpful suggestions, and not feel alone. She’s offering a chance to win a Kindle Fire to the first 75 kids who register starting October 25, 2012. Visit Rainbow Roar for all the details.
Children’s Books about Death and Loss
Reading books opens up conversation about difficult topics as well as gives the readers new lessons. Here are some picture books you might consider when grieving a death.
Nana Upstairs and Nana Downstairs by Tomie De Paolo
Young Tommy visits his grandma and his great-grandma every Sunday. One day, Nana Upstairs isn’t there any more and Tommy must say good-bye.
Chester Raccoon and the Acorn Full of Memories by Audrey Penn
Chester’s is upset because his friend, Skiddel Squirrel, has died. Chester’s mom helps Chester and his friends remember and celebrate Skiddel’s life.
The Tenth Good Thing about Barney by Judith Viorst
A children’s book about death and dealing with the loss of a pet.
Sophie by Mem Fox
Sophie and her Grandpa have a close relationship. When her Grandpa dies, it’s not until she has a child of her own that the feelings of love remind her of what she had with her Grandpa.
The Memory String by Eve Bunting
Laura uses a string with buttons to remind her of her family history, the most important being her mom’s prom dress button and the button off the nightgown she wore the day she died.
Grandma’s Gloves by Cecil Castellucci
When Grandma dies, her granddaughter feels so sad. As she grieves, she remembers all that she learned from her Grandma.
Daddy’s Promise by Cindy Klein Cohen
Jesse’s father died and Jesse doesn’t understand. Both dreams and his mother help answer his questions about what happens and why.
Always and Forever by Alan Durant
Mole, Hare, and Otter don’t think they will ever get over their sadness after Fox dies. Soon they realize that Fox will always be with them in their hearts and memories.
Please comment if you recommend any other picture books or workbooks for children. For those of you experiencing a loss, I send you a big hug and my sympathies. It’s no easy thing what you’re going through.
top image by ☺ Lee J Haywood
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